Many people don’t realize the profound impact that hearing their own name can have. For some, days, weeks, or even months may pass without anyone addressing them by name. This often signifies a deep loneliness, a sense of invisibility that can weigh heavily on the heart.
For people experiencing homelessness, this reality is all too common. For them, it’s not unusual to go by without anyone speaking their name for long periods. The absence of this simple human connection can deepen feelings of isolation and hopelessness.
This reminds me of a powerful moment in the Gospel when St. Mary Magdalene went to the tomb of Jesus to complete the embalming that had been rushed before the Sabbath. She was grieving deeply over the loss of her beloved Teacher and friend. Her sorrow was compounded by finding the tomb empty—His body was gone! In the midst of her sadness and tears, she heard a voice behind her ask, “Why are you weeping? Whom are you looking for?” Not recognizing Him, she responded, thinking it was the gardener: “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.”
It wasn’t until Jesus called her by name—”Mary!”—that everything changed. In that instant, she realized who He was. Hearing her name spoken with such love and familiarity opened her eyes and her heart. Her sorrow turned into joy, her despair into hope, and her darkness was illuminated by a light that came from within her heart—the light of hope! She knew that she was once again known and loved.
Many people living on the streets live in a state of darkness and desperation, overwhelmed by the sorrow of loneliness and abandonment. However, when someone takes the time to learn and use their name, it can bring a spark of light and hope into their lives. It’s a small act that carries tremendous meaning. When you address someone by their name, you acknowledge their humanity and their worth. You say, “I see you. You matter.” And even more profoundly, “You matter to me.”
How can we bring this simple yet powerful practice into our daily lives? It starts with being intentional about connection. When you encounter someone experiencing homelessness, consider starting a conversation with kindness and respect. For example, you might say, “Hi, how are you doing? My name is John. What’s your name?” Once they respond, you can follow up with, “It’s very nice to meet you, Tom. How’s your day going?”
This same approach can apply to anyone who may be feeling lonely or forgotten, whether it’s a relative, a colleague, or a neighbor. Taking the time to call someone by their name and engage with them on a personal level can make an incredible difference. It reminds them that they are seen, valued, and loved.
The power of your name—and the power of using someone else’s—is a gift we can all share to bring light and hope to those around us.